How to Get Started with Journaling for Self-Care

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It can be hard to look inward for many people, especially if we are in emotional and/or physical pain. Afraid of what we’ll find inside, we push ourselves to stay busy, checking off our to-do list until we check out with social media or Netflix. When is the last time you felt refreshed after checking out into digital media? I do love a good movie, but it’s more enjoyable if I’m not avoiding something that needs me internally.

So if you are looking for more ways to unwind, connect, or practice self-care, journaling is a great activity to explore. If you've never journaled before for pleasure or personal growth, I will walk you through some benefits and tips on how to start journaling.

Benefits of Journaling

Some of the benefits of journaling are:

  • Increasing self-awareness and understanding

  • Processing, containing, and managing emotions

  • Improving creativity and problem-solving

  • Allowing greater comprehension of new ideas

  • Empowering yourself to reach goals and start pursuing dreams

  • Increasing tolerance in discomfort and uncertainty

Tips on How to Start Journaling

Next, let's explore how to start journaling for those of you who have never tried it. Here are a few ideas to get you started, but there's no right or wrong way, just the way that works for you.

  • Have a pen and/or colored markers/pencils that you enjoy writing with and a journal.

  • Don't judge what you write, just keep writing.

  • If words don't come, you can also draw or doodle in response to your writing prompts.

  • Set aside a time each day to write so it becomes a part of your routine (ex: before you get in the shower or before bed).

  • Create a space where you like to write that is private and free from distractions like cell phones.

  • Set the mood for self-reflection and self-care by lighting a candle, snuggling with a warm blanket, or sipping your favorite drink.

  • Try using writing prompts or self-reflection questions that you ask yourself to bring out your inner knowing and compassionate self.

5 journal Prompts for self-care

Here are some of my favorite writing prompts to reflect on in my daily journal practice:

  1. What do I need to receive today?

  2. How am I feeling (mind, body, emotions)?

  3. What does my inner wisdom know to be true (about situation/etc.)?

  4. What do I need to say no to or let go of today?

  5. What does my heart (or emotion) need to hear today (or in this situation)?

Journaling isn't for everyone, but it's worth giving a try to see what you think about the practice. I’d love to hear what benefits or struggles you’ve had with starting a journaling practice.

What is your favorite journal prompt to reflect on in your journal?


Marci Payne, MA, LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri

Self-Love Coach

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