Holistic Therapist in Kansas City

Hello. I’m Marci Payne, a licensed therapist in Missouri offering individual therapy, guided journals, and self-love programs.

 
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A Therapist at the Intersection of Self-Love & Relationships

Even though I’ve been a therapist for over 25 years, I wasn’t always a self-love specialist. Because the truth is I wasn’t very loving to myself. I was too busy trying to be the strong one with all the answers and would push myself until I burned out.

I didn’t realize there was another way to create what I desired without working so hard, both in my relationships and business. That is until I learned about self-love, feminine wisdom, the 5 elements, and parts work. 

Now I get to be a different kind of guide for you than I was in my 20s. One that can help you access more than your mind, so you too can create a life based on what you care about. I’m honored to be your guide wherever you are on your journey toward reconnecting with your true self. 

Reclaim Your Identity, Voice, & Confidence with Personalized or Self-Paced Support

 

  • I have been a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri since 2001.

  • I completed my Mater’s (MA) in Clinical Psychology in 1997. So I have over 25 years of experience as a therapist in a variety of settings and many different forms of therapy.

  • I am a trauma-informed, IFS-inspired, LGBTQA+-affirming, and liberation-focused therapist. My intention is to welcome all parts of you. And to guide you to become a resource to yourself, no matter what life throws at you.

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    The modalities that have informed my work are:

    • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    • Somatic Parts work

    • Mindful Self-Compassion

    • Bowen Family Systems

    • Discernment Counseling

    You can view a more complete list of my professional training journey here.

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    Lastly, I want to share some of the identities I hold and acknowledge that we may have different lived experiences. I am a white, cis-hetero, able-body-presenting, and straight-sized woman. I am committed to my own learning, deconditioning, healing, and growth, so that I may create safer, inclusive healing spaces for people of all identities and backgrounds.

  • I love learning about anything that lights me up and helps me grow and heal. I’ve personally studied:

    • self-love

    • feminine wisdom

    • human design

    • cyclical living (Earth, menstrual, & moon cycles)

    • 5 elements

    • astrology

    • intuitive movement

    • QiGong (energy practices)

    • I use she/her pronouns.

    • I was born in St. Louis, MO in the 1970s

    • I have 2 kids (late teens & young adulthood).

    • I am a Virgo Rising, Scorpio Sun, & Pisces Moon. (I’m also a 5/1 Generator - for Human Design fans.)

    • I am spiritual, but not religious.

    • I love being in nature and mindful nature photography.

    • I drink herbal tea every day & created my own home herbal tea bar.

    • I love organizing, learning, and also connecting with others on a deep level.

    • I always thought of myself as non-artisitic, until middle adulthood. Now I enjoy art journaling, painting, and mixed media.

    • I also love live music and curating playlists on Spotify of mostly “high vibe” music.

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Values that Guide My Business & Therapy Practice:

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    Authenticity

    I value all people being freer to be themselves. And I acknowledge there are some settings and relationships where this is unsafe. I am committed to doing my part to show up as myself and allow you to do the same.

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    Compassion

    We all deserve compassion, even when giving it to ourselves and others is hard. I’m committed to helping you access compassion for yourself no matter what you are navigating in life and relationships.

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    Transparency

    I value honesty and vulnerability as much as I value growth and transformation. I am committed to being open about changes I make in my business. And I am devoted to my own learning, healing, and wellness.

Explore My Services

Are you interested in personalized support?

Individual therapy for adults is available in person in Kansas City and online for Missouri residents. If you are interested in working with me 1:1, please schedule a free, initial 15-minute call, so we can determine if we are a good fit.