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      <image:caption>Marci is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor with a private practice in Lee’s Summit, MO. She specializes in helping people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships go from feeling empty and lost to feeling at home within themselves. Recognized as a non-traditional, inclusive therapist, Marci provides in-person sessions locally and online therapy for clients throughout Kansas City, St. Louis, Ballwin, Leawood, and Ottawa. Learn more about starting Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy with Marci.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>She is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Find out more about counseling in Lee’s Summit.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Pay for Therapy Within Any Budget: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 4 - Author: Marci Payne, MA, LPC, LCPC</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Find out more about holistic counseling here.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Writing in Journal</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Make The Most of Therapy: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 3 - Author: Marci Payne, MA, LPC, LCPC</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is an IFS Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Learn more about working with a Lee’s Summit therapist here.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Questions to Ask When Choosing a Therapist: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 2 - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Talking to a Therapist</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Questions to Ask When Choosing a Therapist: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 2 - Author: Marci Payne, MA, LPC, LCPC</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Learn more about counseling in Lee’s Summit here.)</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Complete Guide to Finding a Therapist that is Right for You: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 1 - Make it stand out</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Complete Guide to Finding a Therapist that is Right for You: Lee’s Summit Therapist Tips Part 1 - Author: Marci Payne, MA, LPC, LCPC</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Find out more about counseling in Lee’s Summit.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I made this journal from a composition notebook with mixed media. And I use it for multiple purposes: manifesting with the moon &amp; seasons, recording wisdom &amp; learning, making decisions, and processing emotions. I both write and glue things in it!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I started this mixed media art journal in the fall of 2023. I used it to learn new techniques, unlearn perfectionism, and explore emotions and life themes. (For more inspiration, check out Effy Wild’s Book of Days course.)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - How to Have Emotional Boundaries as an Empath - Author: Marci Payne, MA, LPC, LCPC</image:title>
      <image:caption>She is an IFS therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas, with a private practice located in Lee’s Summit, MO. Her expertise includes individual therapy for people-pleasers, empaths, and adults recovering from emotionally abusive relationships. Marci provides both online and in-person sessions and is recognized as a non-traditional, holistic, and inclusive therapist. (Find out more about holistic IFS therapy for empaths here.) Learn what boundaries you need with my Healthy Boundaries Starter Kit.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://marcipayne.com/blog/self-critical-person-motivate-kindness</loc>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>IFS Therapy</image:title>
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      <image:title>IFS Therapy</image:title>
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      <image:title>IFS Therapy</image:title>
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      <image:title>IFS Therapy - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>IFS Therapy - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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